Understand
Learn without assumptions.
Make room for your partner’s individual experience. There is no single script for how they should feel or what they should need.
For partners
You don’t have
to fix everything
to be there.
Wanting to help and knowing what helps are not always the same thing. Still Us is being built to give partners a clearer, kinder place to start.
Support
Ask what would help.
Discover small ways to be supportive and use the preferences your partner chooses to share. Listen before trying to solve.
Connect
Let it work both ways.
Reflect on your own experience, try something together and share whether it felt useful — without a scorecard.
Your own guide.
Not a view into theirs.
The partner guided start is being developed as its own experience, not a duplicate of the primary user’s health tools.
It should help you understand menopause, learn the app and practise support, while respecting both people’s private spaces.
Support is an invitation.
Not an entitlement
to information.
There is no automatic right to see your partner’s health entries, private notes or reasons for changing a sharing choice.
Connection is not compulsory.
Neither person should have to participate to prove they care. Still Us’s shared tools are being designed for voluntary, respectful use. They are not a way to monitor, pressure or manage another person.
Explore the shared approach